Thursday, September 10, 2015

Signs He Truely Loves You









I am a fan of love, no matter the heart break. Love still remains the most living verb in human history. Love is beautiful when shared with the right one.
With love you are not afraid, it endures all things, it is patient, it is kind, it is not envious or boast or arrogant or rude. Love is not selfish or resentful.
Love doesn’t rejoice in wrong doing. Love hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. Love is true embodiment of security, entrusting yourself in someone’s hand and trusting you won’t get hurt, I call love doing “business with no insurance”.

With no much musings ladies, let’s move straight to the signs your man truly loves you, it’s time to ditch the uncertainties.

1) You are on his mind: The way to know is by the frequency of his calls, funny text message, songs and new dramatic way of checking up on you. Where a man’s treasure is, there lays his hearts.
2) He touches you in public:  It is one thing to be all over you in private, but to the same in public by initiating hugs and simple hand holding without the thought of sex, is a big sign he loves and is proud of you. It’s a way he tells the world “back off she’s taken”. That it is a protective gesture.  I love the public display of affection. 




3) He introduces you to friends and family: If he takes you to meet his family then you are the one. It is a close step in getting his name. If he takes you to meet his friends, then you are welcome to his circle and he is truly proud of you.
4) He talks about the future with you in it: He makes jokes about your future children, number to have and where to reside to start a family. If a man starts talking to you this way, he has no intention of letting you go.
5) He says so: He says “I love you” and means it. My sisters, don’t settle with a guy that makes you assume he loves you. He must say it.




6) He makes himself part of your life: He joins you for boring errands, follows you to the salon and listens to the juiciest gossips. Joins you shopping and endure hours of dress fittings. Takes you to your friend’s house and asks you to call him when you are done for pick up.
7) He replaces the I: Love they say is not selfish. When he talks there shouldn’t be I, it shouldn’t be about him anymore, his friends, his life, job, movies, music etc. He replaces the 'I' to 'we'. What are we going to do today? I think we should have pizza for lunch. We have to pray etc.
8) He is no liar: He will respect you too much to lie. Even if it kills him, he would rather not talk than lie to you.
9) He remembers every date and is there always: From birthdays, to date nights, he becomes a living calendar. Not just for outings and special occasions. He is there when you need him.
10) He lights up when you are around; let’s face the fact it’s not every time you get to hear I love you from your man. There are few times he may not say it, but you see it in his eyes. He is always happy when you are around and maybe you catch him looking your way when he thinks you are not looking. You know those funny things men can do when they are in love *laughing*.
11) He is not afraid to say am sorry: Relationships aren’t always happily ever after. There will be fights and misunderstandings. If the man truly loves you won’t be afraid to apologies when he hurts you, even when you are at fault. The sight of you unhappy makes him unsettled. You are his top priority and you deserve to be happy.
12) He prays for you; This is my favorite and I know it needs no further explanation.


 I wish you all true love as it is defined.





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