I am a fan of love, no
matter the heart break. Love still remains the most living verb in human
history. Love is beautiful when shared with the right one.
With love you are not afraid,
it endures all things, it is patient, it is kind, it is not envious or boast or
arrogant or rude. Love is not selfish or resentful.
Love doesn’t rejoice in
wrong doing. Love hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. Love
is true embodiment of security, entrusting yourself in someone’s hand and trusting
you won’t get hurt, I call love doing “business with no insurance”.With no much musings ladies, let’s move straight to the signs your man truly loves you, it’s time to ditch the uncertainties.
1) You are on his mind: The
way to know is by the frequency of his calls, funny text message, songs and new
dramatic way of checking up on you. Where a man’s treasure is, there lays his
hearts.
2) He touches you in public:
It is one thing to be all over you in
private, but to the same in public by initiating hugs and simple hand holding
without the thought of sex, is a big sign he loves and is proud of you. It’s a
way he tells the world “back off she’s taken”. That it is a protective
gesture. I love the public display of
affection.
3) He introduces you to friends
and family: If he takes you to meet his family then you are the one. It is a
close step in getting his name. If he takes you to meet his friends, then you
are welcome to his circle and he is truly proud of you.
4) He talks about the future
with you in it: He makes jokes about your future children, number to have and where
to reside to start a family. If a man starts talking to you this way, he has no
intention of letting you go.
5) He says so: He says “I
love you” and means it. My sisters, don’t settle with a guy that makes you
assume he loves you. He must say it.
6) He makes himself part of
your life: He joins you for boring errands, follows you to the salon and listens
to the juiciest gossips. Joins you shopping and endure hours of dress fittings.
Takes you to your friend’s house and asks you to call him when you are done for
pick up.
7) He replaces the I: Love
they say is not selfish. When he talks there shouldn’t be I, it shouldn’t be
about him anymore, his friends, his life, job, movies, music etc. He replaces
the 'I' to 'we'. What are we going to do today? I think we should have pizza for
lunch. We have to pray etc.
8) He is no liar: He will
respect you too much to lie. Even if it kills him, he would rather not talk
than lie to you.
9) He remembers every date and
is there always: From birthdays, to date nights, he becomes a living calendar.
Not just for outings and special occasions. He is there when you need him.
10) He lights up when you
are around; let’s face the fact it’s not every time you get to hear I love you
from your man. There are few times he may not say it, but you see it in his
eyes. He is always happy when you are around and maybe you catch him looking
your way when he thinks you are not looking. You know those funny things men
can do when they are in love *laughing*.
11) He is not afraid to say
am sorry: Relationships aren’t always happily ever after. There will be fights
and misunderstandings. If the man truly loves you won’t be afraid to apologies
when he hurts you, even when you are at fault. The sight of you unhappy
makes him unsettled. You are his top priority and you deserve to be happy.
12) He prays for you; This
is my favorite and I know it needs no further explanation.
I wish you all true love as
it is defined.
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